how to woo a girl:

Be yourself.
To get people to like you, you only need to be yourself. Phoniness has never been a welcome trait. Trying to be someone you're not sends out a warning signal. Pretentiousness is a turn-off because people want to get to know other people for who and what they are.
Immerse yourself.
If you've always felt like a worm around the opposite sex, it's not the end of the world. Getting used to being around them may take some getting used to; but as with any brave exploit, it takes a degree of adjustment. Start with the basics.
Be nice.
"Nice" and "pleasant" mean two different things. Sure, you might be a pretty fun guy to be around with, but do you actually go out of your way to be a decent human being?
Help an old lady cross the street. Be a role model for kids to look up to. Be kind to animals. Being considerate to others, no matter the age, gender, or species, is sure to make any girl fall for you.
Of course, don't do it just to impress her. If all you're after are the brownie points, your efforts will only blow up in your face, painfully.
Be a friend.
Yes, nonromantic relationships between people of the opposite sexes do exist. In some cases, pure friendship relationships can even lead to romantic relationships. But whether or not you'd like to take it that far, keep in mind that girls weren't put on earth to be chased after and captured like prize game.

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